So, two white women told me their stories, and I both believe them, and sympathize with them. Both were cute – very attractive – in their day. Both were mothers of white children – both had *more* than replacement level white children. They did exactly what all the guys say women should do. They married their high school sweethearts, had many children, stayed (somewhat) faithful, and fulfilled the 14 words.
Both were divorced though. Same story. Married handsome, barely middle class white boys – the handsome “alphas” of course – had many of his children – *young* – but eventually divorced him because he stopped providing the beta bucks, and – of course – being a handsome alpha – had other women on the side.
Both were well past their “sell by” date, but they were both smart, interesting women who, in a sense, did the “right thing” that most of us would praise. Yet, they did, in fact, kind of get the short end of the stick. Because the white man they did in fact commit to – and obey, according to their side of the story, did eventually wind up cheating or otherwise abandoning the family, or otherwise just failed to live up to their end of the bargain.
Which brings me back to a much older thread “It’s Not Men vs. Women, It’s Beautiful vs. Ugly.” If you look good, you can get away with whatever the hell you want. If you don’t look good, no one gives a shit. You can follow all the rules and it makes no difference. Some loser balding 40 year old that makes plenty of money will be happy – will line up – to be the “beta bucks” for an aging slut – if she’s pretty.
Some young Christian virgin will happily marry, submit to, and make sandwiches for, an aging “alpha” that only wants to “pump and dump” her – if he’s handsome, and “alpha.”
It’s the beautiful people totally running roughshod over the ugly people. For men, it’s not about “alpha” – at least, not for sex. It’s 100% just about looks. Look good, you get whatever you want from pretty girls. Ugly? Make as much money as you want – maybe you can be beta bucks – but the girls will still sex up the “alpha” – i.e., the guy that is handsome – in the bathroom, while making you wait a year to get anything.
It is what it is.
But men can play the slut game way – way – longer than women can.
Oops, I guess we’re not “equal” after all. LOL.